I learned a long time ago not to judge people for the decisions they make because no one can really understand why they made those decisions.
As many of you know, this past week, an anonymous John Doe using the fake profile name Johnny Stuart has been sending links and images of me web camming. This is something I am not ashamed of, and my close friends and family know that I did this to make ends meet last year. I chose to not disclose this with people that I am not close with because it’s nothing important to tell people that didn’t matter to me.
I am a feminist, and I believe in bodily autonomy. I did not put myself in harms way, and I took advantage of the over specialization of the female body and made some money. No big deal. What I did has zero bearing on my character or my ethics. I am not a slut that would sleep with anyone that came my way.
For whoever is slut shaming me, you did not win. My family and friends are not ashamed of me. Even with a masters degree, I fell on hard times and got myself out of it. I am not ashamed of my body, and I love myself, friends, and family. I wouldn’t do anything that would hurt them.
Considering there are millions of women who have been apart of he web cam business, and my videos are nearly a year old… You sir (or chick) really took your time to search the inter webs to find me to jack off to me. I’m not ashamed that you saw me topless. I’ve had more than my share of nip slips in my life. I am not embarrassed.
I don’t know who you are, but I do feel like you have some deep seeded issues that you feel the need to try to get others in my life to judge me. If I’ve wronged you, I am more than willing to speak to you and forgive you for what you’ve done, and I would do my best to right whatever it is that I wronged you.
The people I love and care for don’t judge me. Everyone else for that matter, if they judge me, I don’t need them in my life anyhow.
I thank you for letting me gut my Facebook and only keep the people I really need on here. I thank you for really solidifying my beliefs that you can’t judge a person for what they do. I thank you for showing my friends that there are very petty people out there.
I’ve never had such an amazing out pour of support from the people in my life.